How to End a Relationship?
Some time when the relation is not in the control of yours it is always better to end your relationship with your partner. Even experts may recommend you because worrying for some days is always better than worrying all the day. Ending a relationship means that you are no longer going to talk or meet your partner so you have to do this task effectively.
How this can be done
There are lots of ways that can help you in this matter and thus it is always better to look for something that is easy to implement and help you in ending your relationship if you have decided to end it.
Ignorance
It is the very first thing that can help you. Generally it is said that ignorance is the best punishment that you can give to someone for making him realize his fault. First ignore your partner for a specific period of time and if you think that he/she in not realizing his fault start ignoring him totally. When you want to finish a relation half of the job can be done through ignorance as it makes the partner feel that you are avoiding him.
Try to maintain a gap
Maintaining a gap from your partner also helps you in ending your relation. When there is a gap between both of you definitely you cannot meet after a short period of time which will slowly help you in live without your partner. After maintaining a distance gap try to maintain communication gap. When the partner gives the bulk of phone calls then it is always better to not pick the phone majority of times and sometime saying that you are busy now and will call you back after sometime. When the partner again calls repeat the keywords as “I am still busy” This may fill the partner with anger and maybe he/she also starts doing what exactly you are doing with him. If this happens job is almost done for you.
Keep these things in your mind while ending the relationship
- Don’t say directly that “I want to leave you” because this may hold you responsible for the end of relation for the entire life even when the actual fault who let you to go for this decision was not yours. Better to use words like “I need some time” or I will discuss it with “someone”.
- Know the right time to walk away as it is something if done with full fledge planning probably give outcome quickly.
- While ending your relationship make it sure that you are ending a non working relation and not active relation.
The most important aspect that you have to keep in your mind while breaking up a relation is ending the friendship as well. Generally partners after breaking up says “Can we be still friends”. Realize the acceptance of this offer and directly say no in this matter. If you start talking your partner like a friend probably what will happen is that you cannot forget him which means you cannot live for your future properly and neither can you concentrate on it.