Comments for Mental Care Facts & Health Tips http://www.mentalcarefacts.com Women's Mental Health Blog - Anxiety - Dating - Depression - Fear - Happiness - Love - Panic - Phobia - Relationship - Stress Wed, 19 Oct 2011 16:17:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Overweight Spouse. The Reason for Divorce. by Ronda http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/overweight-spouse-reason-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-35103 Ronda Wed, 19 Oct 2011 16:17:56 +0000 http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/?p=52#comment-35103 I am really struggling with this issue. I feel exactly like the article describes. When we married I made it clear that fitness was important to me. I work hard to keep in shape and I can't understand why he can't? He tells me I am selfish and vain because I want him to look better. I am concerned about his health. He yo yo diets fluctuating between 50-80lbs overweight. When we married 9 years ago he was 185---now easily he is 260+---the biggest he has ever been. He told me he lost his wedding ring---which I know it is because it didn't fit any longer---and he bought a new one. If i try to help him...tell him I will do any diet he wants with him or workout with him.....he gets mad. I just have to keep my mouth shut. I just don't know what to do? So hard to watch him eat large meals at 9pm, fast food for lunch, not working out, now wearing his sleep mask...............he isn't even 40 yet......feel like I am married to a 65+ year old man. So sad, frustrated...........no options but treats of divorce??? I am really struggling with this issue. I feel exactly like the article describes. When we married I made it clear that fitness was important to me. I work hard to keep in shape and I can’t understand why he can’t? He tells me I am selfish and vain because I want him to look better. I am concerned about his health. He yo yo diets fluctuating between 50-80lbs overweight. When we married 9 years ago he was 185—now easily he is 260+—the biggest he has ever been. He told me he lost his wedding ring—which I know it is because it didn’t fit any longer—and he bought a new one.

If i try to help him…tell him I will do any diet he wants with him or workout with him…..he gets mad. I just have to keep my mouth shut.

I just don’t know what to do? So hard to watch him eat large meals at 9pm, fast food for lunch, not working out, now wearing his sleep mask……………he isn’t even 40 yet……feel like I am married to a 65+ year old man. So sad, frustrated………..no options but treats of divorce???

]]> Comment on Overweight Spouse. The Reason for Divorce. by Brian http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/overweight-spouse-reason-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-2550 Brian Tue, 01 Feb 2011 22:12:35 +0000 http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/?p=52#comment-2550 Daryl I am in the same boat.. All you can really do is back off, and get into shape yourself... if you push the issue at all it will backfire. Women think their man will love them no matter what. This is naive and selfish... If the married a man.. and he quit his job and played xbox all day instead of paying the bills.. he would be out of their in a heartbeat. Daryl I am in the same boat.. All you can really do is back off, and get into shape yourself… if you push the issue at all it will backfire. Women think their man will love them no matter what. This is naive and selfish… If the married a man.. and he quit his job and played xbox all day instead of paying the bills.. he would be out of their in a heartbeat.

]]> Comment on Overweight Spouse. The Reason for Divorce. by daryl http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/overweight-spouse-reason-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-170 daryl Sun, 11 Jul 2010 23:15:14 +0000 http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/?p=52#comment-170 I think is a good article..I am in the same situation with my wife and I am a fitness trainer! which makes it especially hard..The weight has driven a wedge between us and I feel so guilty about feeling this way..I have tried every imaginable type of encouragement spoken and unspoken, all to no avail... Seeing her nude or semi-nude repels me from her..I can not get sexually excited about her..so what do I do? I think is a good article..I am in the same situation with my wife and I am a fitness trainer! which makes it especially hard..The weight has driven a wedge between us and I feel so guilty about feeling this way..I have tried every imaginable type of encouragement spoken and unspoken, all to no avail…
Seeing her nude or semi-nude repels me from her..I can not get sexually excited about her..so what do I do?

]]> Comment on Tips to Reduce Stress for Women by Juan Sabota http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/tips-reduce-stress-women/comment-page-1/#comment-14 Juan Sabota Mon, 24 May 2010 00:32:38 +0000 http://www.mentalcarefacts.com/?p=7#comment-14 thanks for that info it do help me a lot thanks for that info it do help me a lot

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